how everything can take a 360 degree turn after long years of working things out. A cousin once told me, long relationships never really do work out. Three years tops! When one comes to think of it, it is so true! Ask my brother! The relationship went from high to lowest low in four years. Ask me! From an always blushing overtly in love teenager I became a whining and nagging mother-clone. (I am scaring out prospects with this statement. LOL! This is a write-up. It is exaggerated).
It is crazy! We become persons we loathe by the time we become desperate. For men, they become doormats. For women, they become one of those ready-to-dement-whoever-stole-her-man psychos.
But after awhile, you brush it off and laugh at yourself for being the pathetic person that you have become because of the "love" you felt for that other homo sapiens. But in reality, you were just scared to be alone. The thought of letting something you have held on and "invested" so much on for years fizzle just like that freaked the insides out of you. You let out a sigh after realizing that the once sweet story has turned sour. You wonder, thereafter, whether it is possible for that wonderful feeling to happen again. You know it will but you grow impatient...
Then BAM!
Suddenly, you find yourself becoming a lunatic again! But, this time, a smiling lunatic. In no time, you become giddy, optimistic, hopeful, excited. You laugh even when you're alone. You smirk when you silently remember a smart-ass comment he made or the too-cute answer she threw after you made a smart-ass comment. You become alive. You get all tingly at the mere thought of being with that new other person who seems to never leave your mind. You get crazy all over again - the better type of craziness.
It is crazy. Falling in love. Loving. Choosing to love despite the hurt. It is crazy.
But taking the risk of going all over it again is crazier.
But definitely all worth it...Don't you think?!
Case in point, after three years in a relationship and your boyfriend has not asked you to marry him yet, dump him. For a guy, even after three years, and you still have no plans of buying her a Tiffany and Co. engagement ring, dump her. Or if you are still young to get married, after giving everything imaginable, to your senses that is, and he still has not straighten up...find another guy! For a guy, if the girl's cuteness becomes an annoyance...find another girl! There are a whole lot out there more fit for you!!
Love can happen again but it will be wrapped in a different but definitely more beautiful package. It just takes all the madness in the world for you to be engulfed with that much love you want and deserve. ; )
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This is just an opinion. Claud, Trina and my friends who are in more than 3 years relationships, don't listen to me. This is just me.
To my friends who read my blogs but choose to keep mum because you love to torture me more in person, no I am not in love. Yet. So shut the hell up! Hehe!
after three years in a relationship and your boyfriend has not asked you to marry him yet, dump him. 
